True Love, Don't wait

Very interesting article found in Chinese version. Translated it into English to share with everyone.

He is very clearly aware she is inappropriate for him, but more definite is, he cannot say on own for break-up. He only keep waiting, until one day his girlfriend cannot bear it any longer. Instead of waiting until the old age still unable to make the decision, she'd chosen to leave this relationship on her own choice. Her left is on her own initiative, He think: I am not heartless, instead I am respecting your decision sincerely.

After half a year, she discovered that he married with one only met for 3 month-long. That makes her bolt from the blue and understood that he just never want to marry her, but not doesn't want a marriage in his life. Eight years love cannot compare with three months sentiments.

After six months married with the one, he realized the one he married actually predecessored his girlfriend. He is very sad and only then understood he likes this type of girl, which is like the girlfriend he gave up earlier on.

Human being often very contradictory, likes her stubbornness with the disposition, but cannot bear the indulgent; likes her graceful, but cannot bear her piles of friend; loves her tenderness, so do not blame she is not sporting enough; loves her way of lively, then do not criticize she flirt like a bitch.

The longer the relationship goes, the lower the possibility for the marriage. Therefore, sometimes the love length and the marriage possibility is in reverse proportion.

Fickle in the affection is the nature of human. When the day has been long, married might not be for love anymore, but is the sense of responsibility obligation.

After the marriage with his wife, then only he slowly discovered the relationship with his girlfriend were not because the love was not there, but just the love had been faded by time. The moment he found another new love from his wife, the passion of love enlighten up again immediately therefore decided to married hastily.

Until finally he married sometime after, when the love faded slowly time to time, then he slowly discover his wife actually has many predecessors of his girlfriend, but the one he love the most by the end is his girlfriend, and she isn't his wife.

Is such plot also similarly performing in elsewhere?

School days love is very pure, after graduated always want to wait for work to stable then only marry after; work stable later then want to wait to have a savings to buy the vehicle, to buy the house and then only to marry, waits to wait, when love is given by the time wears down, when the third party involved, and regret is unbearable. Once in young with all the vows, the dreams, the ideals, all gone before manage to go through all the challenges and seductiveness in life. Therefore, the one who walk the aisle with you normally is not the one who shared all the joys and sorrows, and has experienced the winter and summer together with you.

Hereby advises politely to the fellow girls, if he is really the one you wants to marry, do not have to wait until he has the house, vechicle and gold then only marry to him. The reality is, waited until him has all of these, he will become a very attractive and capable man, eventually he will face more enticements in life. The long waiting and promises with the pledge of eternal love will have to face the unresistable enticement challenges.

If now does not marry him, when the time he fulfilled everything he'd been chasing after in his life, the bride had extremely high possibility is not you.

Man with ability is alike the longer the wine, the mellower it is, whereas the woman is like the fresh bread with expired date, the time is the biggest enemy of woman.

If i were him, when i reached my 35 years old with the value worth more than ten million dollars' bachelors, i will not need a capable woman over 30 years old to assist me. I would rather choose a young pretty girl, perhaps does not have working ability, but with all a girl should have to admired by men to be envy at me. A truly capable man would not care about how much a woman can assist him to gain more wealth.

When you've met your Mr.Right, do not wait until the love faded by time. Maybe he does not have a house nor a car, as long as he progresses earnestly, he will be a rising star one day.

Also reminds fellow gentlemen, if she is the Miss Right you wants to dote on well, do not let her wait too long, has her to accompany you to struggle together is a very happy matter unless in your heart has other ideas, otherwise do not let love abrasion by time.

Although it sounds very cruel, by there are plenty of similar experiences happened at your family and friends.

If he/she is the one, then just don't wait anymore, unless you just does not want to marry!