LOVE and ROMANTIC

L is for the way you look at me
O is for the only one I see
V is very, very extraordinary
E is even more than anyone that you adore can

Love is all that I can give to you
Love is more than just a game for two
Two in love can make it
Take my heart and please don't break it
Love was made for me and you

A song which i personally love it a lot by Nat King Cole, which has a very meaningful lyrics written by Milt Gabler and music by Bert Kaempfert.

What is romantic?

Romantic doesn't mean to have a very expensive candle light dinner; doesn't need to travel to Europe (for Asians) or Asia (for Europeans); never need a Tiffany & Co. gift, or Louis Vuitton bags, or a big bungalow nor a dream car of yours to be given.

A whispering of how much you mean to him; how much he love you; how much he needed you in his entire life; how you completed he; and when you tell him how much you envy at him for all the achievements he made, and the reply from him is: "You don't have to honey, because these are all yours too. Without you, everything is meaningless!" Or when you ask him anything he needed to buy while telling him to pampered himself a little after working so hard, he say: "I don't need anything, all i want is to see you happy. I rather spend the money i earned hardly on you to make you happy instead."

Lying next to each other, planning the future together, discussing how to build the family of us together, cuddle tightly with all the love and care; having a man who care how much you enjoyed in the holiday instead of how much had spent in the holiday; someone who willing to sacrificed the job he love just to be with you; keep figuring out how to live together; changing himself with all the attitudes you couldn't bear with; calling you or messaging you in the middle of work just to tell you he miss you and how much he love you; dreaming of you and to be assure in the mid of his sleep that you are sleeping next to him; giving the most lovable smile with the morning greeting with his love when the moment you opened your eyes; telling how beautiful you are and supporting you whenever and whatever you do; full trust and believe in you; and nevertheless the shoulder to be there for you whenever you needed and the chest that gives you the feeling of secureness. That is the romantic you gives me! And this is all the romantic i asked for and you'd given and gives still. That makes my love for you never stop because you are the one.

Just a sincere eyes contact and telling how much you love me and want me to be in your future life from your true heart, that is the very romantic scenario for me. No ring needed, no flower needed, no candle light dinner needed, nothing i need, because all i need is the words truly from your heart and the commitment you willing to make, and that will make it a "yes"! or maybe a romantic song as background music would be nice ;)

Although i might not have a perfect family, but i know we will build a perfect and happy family together,because i have faith in you and after all, you are the one all i needs and wants!

True Love, Don't wait

Very interesting article found in Chinese version. Translated it into English to share with everyone.

He is very clearly aware she is inappropriate for him, but more definite is, he cannot say on own for break-up. He only keep waiting, until one day his girlfriend cannot bear it any longer. Instead of waiting until the old age still unable to make the decision, she'd chosen to leave this relationship on her own choice. Her left is on her own initiative, He think: I am not heartless, instead I am respecting your decision sincerely.

After half a year, she discovered that he married with one only met for 3 month-long. That makes her bolt from the blue and understood that he just never want to marry her, but not doesn't want a marriage in his life. Eight years love cannot compare with three months sentiments.

After six months married with the one, he realized the one he married actually predecessored his girlfriend. He is very sad and only then understood he likes this type of girl, which is like the girlfriend he gave up earlier on.

Human being often very contradictory, likes her stubbornness with the disposition, but cannot bear the indulgent; likes her graceful, but cannot bear her piles of friend; loves her tenderness, so do not blame she is not sporting enough; loves her way of lively, then do not criticize she flirt like a bitch.

The longer the relationship goes, the lower the possibility for the marriage. Therefore, sometimes the love length and the marriage possibility is in reverse proportion.

Fickle in the affection is the nature of human. When the day has been long, married might not be for love anymore, but is the sense of responsibility obligation.

After the marriage with his wife, then only he slowly discovered the relationship with his girlfriend were not because the love was not there, but just the love had been faded by time. The moment he found another new love from his wife, the passion of love enlighten up again immediately therefore decided to married hastily.

Until finally he married sometime after, when the love faded slowly time to time, then he slowly discover his wife actually has many predecessors of his girlfriend, but the one he love the most by the end is his girlfriend, and she isn't his wife.

Is such plot also similarly performing in elsewhere?

School days love is very pure, after graduated always want to wait for work to stable then only marry after; work stable later then want to wait to have a savings to buy the vehicle, to buy the house and then only to marry, waits to wait, when love is given by the time wears down, when the third party involved, and regret is unbearable. Once in young with all the vows, the dreams, the ideals, all gone before manage to go through all the challenges and seductiveness in life. Therefore, the one who walk the aisle with you normally is not the one who shared all the joys and sorrows, and has experienced the winter and summer together with you.

Hereby advises politely to the fellow girls, if he is really the one you wants to marry, do not have to wait until he has the house, vechicle and gold then only marry to him. The reality is, waited until him has all of these, he will become a very attractive and capable man, eventually he will face more enticements in life. The long waiting and promises with the pledge of eternal love will have to face the unresistable enticement challenges.

If now does not marry him, when the time he fulfilled everything he'd been chasing after in his life, the bride had extremely high possibility is not you.

Man with ability is alike the longer the wine, the mellower it is, whereas the woman is like the fresh bread with expired date, the time is the biggest enemy of woman.

If i were him, when i reached my 35 years old with the value worth more than ten million dollars' bachelors, i will not need a capable woman over 30 years old to assist me. I would rather choose a young pretty girl, perhaps does not have working ability, but with all a girl should have to admired by men to be envy at me. A truly capable man would not care about how much a woman can assist him to gain more wealth.

When you've met your Mr.Right, do not wait until the love faded by time. Maybe he does not have a house nor a car, as long as he progresses earnestly, he will be a rising star one day.

Also reminds fellow gentlemen, if she is the Miss Right you wants to dote on well, do not let her wait too long, has her to accompany you to struggle together is a very happy matter unless in your heart has other ideas, otherwise do not let love abrasion by time.

Although it sounds very cruel, by there are plenty of similar experiences happened at your family and friends.

If he/she is the one, then just don't wait anymore, unless you just does not want to marry!